Couples Therapy Services
Most couples don’t come to therapy because of one fight.
They come because they’re at the end of their rope.
Because the same patterns keep showing up—louder, meaner, more hopeless.
Because they’ve tried everything they know how to do, and it still feels like they’re failing.
That’s where I come in.
I work with couples on the edge. The ones who love each other but don’t know how to show it anymore. The ones stuck in loops of shutdown, blame, silence, sarcasm, panic, or rage. The ones who are wondering:
Is it too late? Can we fix this? Or are we just too different?
I help you slow down the chaos and actually see the pattern you're stuck in—not just from the outside, but from the inside.
Where the pain lives.
Where the tenderness hides.
Where the longing is still there, buried under years of misfires and misunderstandings.
My job isn’t to take sides. It’s to hold the space where both of you make sense. Where you can stop fighting for a winner and start building something that works. Where love starts to feel safer again.
You don’t have to be perfect. You don’t have to be calm. You just have to be willing to get honest—and stay curious.
I work with couples who:
•Engage in intense conflicts (such as name-calling, shouting, slamming doors)
•Go days without speaking to each other
•Feel as though their relationship no longer exists
•Fear they may be fundamentally incompatible
•Struggle with setting boundaries or deal with codependency
•Find communication extremely difficult
•Trigger each other due to past traumas
•Live with mental health conditions like depression, anxiety, or ADHD
•Argue about one partner's substance use
•Have lost trust after a betrayal
•Are seriously contemplating separation or divorce
•Feel there is an unequal distribution of emotional labor in the relationship
•View their problems in vastly different ways
•Have experienced infidelity, whether physical or emotional
Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread;
remade all the time, made new.
- Ursula K. Le Guin
This Work Is For You If…
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You’re in the same fight on repeat—and it’s getting meaner, colder, or quieter
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You feel like you're always the one reaching—or always the one pulling away
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You’ve tried to talk about it, but it ends in shutdowns, spirals, or someone sleeping on the couch
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You’re walking on eggshells. Or you’re numb. Or you’ve started wondering if this is just what love looks like
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You feel like you’ve become the worst version of yourself in this relationship
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You’re scared to ask for what you really need
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You want to stay, but not like this
This work isn’t about fixing your partner or proving who’s right.
It’s about finding the emotional thread that’s been missing—so you can stop reacting in survival mode and start responding from something truer.
If you’re willing to be seen, willing to stay in the room, and willing to try something different, we’ll have somewhere to go.
